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Most times I don’t recover the steady and forward thinking as to whom is good or bad. In the realm of the contrast between the sexes, I don’t comprehend why there must be a war between us. Ladies are currently battling to be heard, and that’s great in light of our history. Previously we were only stay at home spouses with no aspirations in life other than to fulfil to the role of a wife within the family unit. As J-Lo (sang in the now cutting edge days she claims to say , “I ain’t your mom”) implied, she doesn’t feel that a lady ought to be static in her dealings with men, regardless of the fact that they require a guardian to guide them. Generally however I trust a lady is entirely helpful to the terms of a peaceful whisperer, a firm hand behind the provider for the family .

In this modern day society men are presently wearing heels and subsequently forgetting their responsibilities, no firm hand in the family . Ladies are left to be the provider and the stay at home spouse. Pioneers of the past, they gave us the voice we need to connect with whatever remains of this male dominated world we call the “RAT RACE.”

This is the juncture where I sincerely think we made a mistake. Men have a particular chemical make up, high levels of testosterone that compel them to push to hard work, not all in really getting their hands filthy but some rather in the discovering of hens meat. So when we women remove that privilege from them, they tend to stagnate and become apathetic. They don’t feel as if they have a purpose in life any longer, so they lie back and let a lady do all the work. As much we ladies say that we would prefer not to be second or behind, we also prefer not to have a lazy man < we often flee > In our own slip-ups of being on top, because of the battling for our own rights when that occurs. Ladies, I should concede are one of the hardest animal varieties to manage, yet that is the reason God made man to handle us. All things considered, in the book of scriptures Adam was made first yet when he was so desolate he required a friend, God decided that he needed a solid lady to remain behind him to make him whole. In relation to the entire pack of discussions that happened afterwards, I need not go into further details as we all know the story. In Jamaican local dialect, we generally have this adage “every hoe have tick a bush.” Meaning that everybody has somebody who might be listening sitting tight for them regardless as to what extent discovery may take or the place on the planet they may be, there is dependably somebody out there that was made for you .

On that note, Gender distinction is insignificant. When you cherish somebody, that individual ought to have the appreciation, information and the patience to gain an understanding of how to treat you. Make up your own particular tenets and implement them however you see fit. It’s your life, live it how you need to. I happen to lean towards a legitimate 60/40, I will often give the man a chance to do a tiny bit more. I think they like being in control so I let them assume the role. We are the ladies of the night, a quiet mind behind their ordinary considering. Why try battling it ? You’re just going to get your own way in the end anyway. We are after all the most controlling creatures known to man, and I for one don’t have a problem with that.